Ansche Chesed Monthly Bulletin )
  December 2004
In this issue
  • December Calendar
  • Message from the Rabbi
  • Scholar-in-Residence Rabbi David Saperstein
  • Shabbat Learning
  • Programs for Families & Youth
  • New York Jews Film Series Continues
  • News & Notes
  • Donations

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    This weekend, December 4th & 5th, the Hanukkah Arts Festival returns to Ansche Chesed. With over 40 top-quality craftspeople coming from as far away as Israel and as nearby as our own community, the 24th Annual Ansche Chesed Hanukkah Arts Festival offers something for everyone. Festivities begin with the Saturday evening gala, from 8 p.m. to 11 p.m., featuring live music with our own Mike Cohen, and include delicious hors d'oeuvres and sumptuous desserts. The festival continues all day Sunday. Children's activities begin with a preschool Hanukkah workshop at 10:30, sponsored by Yaldaynu and AC. The Crafts show is open from 11 a.m. to 5 p.m., and the Maccabee Café opens at noon. Admission for the Saturday evening gala is $20 per person. Sunday's admission is $6 per person.

    Other December events:

    Next Shabbat we are privileged to host Rabbi David Saperstein as Scholar-in-Residence. Rabbi Saperstein, who is the Director of the Religious Action Center of Reform Judaism and the Co-Chair of the Coalition to Preserve Religious Liberty, will speak on Religion and State in Israel and America. Registration for the Friday night dinner is due Tuesday, December 7.

    Families: Save December 17 for a Kabbalat Shabbat service and dinner hosted by the Family Education Committee. See the details below.

    December Calendar
    CANDLE LIGHTING TIMES
    12/3 Light candles 4:10. Shabbat ends 5:15
    12/10 Light candles 4:10. Shabbat ends 5:15
    12/17 Light candles 4:12. Shabbat ends 5:18
    12/24 Light candles 4:15. Shabbat ends 5:19
     

    SERVICE TIMES
    Morning Minyan
    Monday & Thursday 7:20 a.m.
    Tuesday, Wednesday, Friday 7:30 a.m.
    Sunday & Civil Holidays 8:30 a.m.
    Rosh Hodesh 7:15 a.m.

    On Shabbat
    Kabbalat Shabbat Services 5:30 p.m.
    Torah Study 9 a.m.
    Morning Services 10 a.m.
       Sanctuary Minyan
       Minyan M'at
       Learners Minyan through Dec. 11
       Minyan Rimonim Dec. 4, 18
       West Side Minyan Dec. 11, 25
     

    Family and Children's Services 11 a.m.
    Ages 4 and Under
    Ages 5-7
    Ages 8 and Up
     

    WEEK OF DECEMBER 1
    11/1 Talmud Study 6:30 p.m.
       Intro. to the Zohar 7:30 p.m.
       Hebrew Reading for Prayer 7:15 p.m.
       Learn to Read Hebrew 7:15 p.m.
    11/4 SHABBAT Vayeshev
       Rabbi Nachman class 9:30 a.m.
       Bat Mitzvah: Rachel Gould
       Hanukkah Arts Festival Opening 8 p.m.
    12/5 Hanukkah Arts Festival 11 a.m. - 5 p.m.
       Preschool Hanukkah Workshop 10:30 a.m.

    WEEK OF DECEMBER 6
    12/6 Israel-Zionist Reading Group 7:45 p.m.
    12/7 Erev Hanukkah - Light first candle
       Israeli Fiction Reading Group 7:30 p.m.
    12/8 Talmud Study 6:30 p.m.
       Learn to Read Hebrew 7:15 p.m.
       Hebrew School Hanukkah Party 5 p.m.
    12/9 Hebrew School Hanukkah Party (upper grades)
    12/10 Rabbi David Saperstein Scholar-in- Residence
    12/11 SHABBAT Mikketz
       Rabbi David Saperstein Scholar-in- Residence
       Rabbi Nachman Class 9 a.m.
       Bar Mitzvah: Jacob Dannett (havdala)

    WEEK OF DECEMBER 13
    12/13 Rosh Hodesh Tevet
    12/14 Havurah School Hanukkah Party 5:45 p.m.
    12/15 Talmud Study 6:30 p.m.
    12/17 Family Kabbalat Shabbat & Dinner
    12/18 SHABBAT Vayigash
       Film: Enemies: A Love Story 8 p.m.
    12/19 Young Judaea 4 p.m.
     

    WEEK OF DECEMBER 20
    12/21 Board of Trustees 8 p.m.
    12/25 SHABBAT Vayekhi

    Message from the Rabbi
    Merry Judeo-Christian holiday season! In this period between Thanksgiving and New Year's, when our country is consumed with holiday observances which are not ours, many Jews often feel reminded of the smallness of our minority. About 160 million Americans, 77% of our fellow citizens, call themselves Christians. In contrast, Jews constitute about 1.3% of America, or about 5.5 million people. That makes about 29 Christians for every Jew. Now seems like a good time for a moment of reflection on being an American Jew at Christmastime, 2004.

    First, this seems an especially pressing moment for reflection in the aftermath of an election that left many Jews (especially New York Jews) reeling and feeling very different from large segments of America. I refer not, primarily, to the fact that Jews again voted overwhelmingly (76%) for the first runner up. But I suspect that even Bush voters among us - and may both corners respect those who chose differently - feel somewhat queasy at the dimension of Bush support dependent on fundamentalist Christianity.

    Think about the widely reported sentiments from evangelical Christians who believe Bush is God's designated leader. One was quoted after the election as saying: "Now comes the revolution." Particularly disturbing is the narrowness of the religious discourse in the public square, as if every religious person obviously must discriminate against gay people, or oppose abortion, or favor the death penalty. Consider also the stupefyingly large sales figures (40 million plus copies, earning more than $400 million) from apocalyptic novels promising that at the second coming, we and all other non-Christians will all be swimming in the lake of fire. . .except, of course, for the "saving remnant" of 144,000 Jews who will convert to Christianity.

    Make you nervous? It should. Innumerable American Christians still see us as a symbol of all in the world that rejects God, who must one day convert or burn. For all the advances achieved in inter-religious dialogue in the last 50 years, clearly a spirit of pluralism and respect has not penetrated all corners.

    But inter-religious dialogue with our fellow liberals does not make everything all sunshine and daisies either. Consider the astonishing developments in the mainline, generally liberal Presbyterian Church USA this year. The national Presbytery narrowly affirmed its commitment to evangelizing us through Jews-for- Jesus "synagogues." Also, this church overwhelmingly passed one-sided resolutions against the separation fence in the Occupied Territories (factually misrepresenting the dimensions of the fence, and making no comment on the terrorism that threatens life and limb of every Israeli) and for divesting its holdings from most companies doing business in Israel. To employ the tactic of divestment is to associate Israel with South African apartheid - a comparison which, for all Israel's faults, I believe is utterly unsupportable. To favor divestment is to condemn Israel as a colonialist invader, implicitly wishing them the fate of the Belgians in the Congo, the English in India and the French in Algeria: withdrawal. While the church did affirm its support for a two-state solution, in this Jew's eyes that affirmation seems hollow, undermined by the blaming of only Israel for the conflict. Immediately on the heels of these decisions, a semi-official Presbyterian delegation visited Hezbullah leaders in Lebanon, praised their commitment to peace and proclaimed them more congenial partners than Jews. After criticism, the church hierarchy disavowed these statements. Subsequent dialogue with Jewish communal leaders proved fruitful in many ways, but was also frustrated when the two sides were unable to issue a joint statement condemning terrorism.

    My own personal Jewish-Presbyterian dialogue was somewhat satisfying, if more modest. In the wake of these events, I met with an official of the New York City Presbytery to try to understand these decisions. She personally shared my horror at the support for evangelism aimed at Jews. While we did not agree in our analyses of the problems in the Land of Israel, we shared mutually illuminating conversations on the religious meaning of the conflict for each of us. Ultimately, the national Presbyterian Church's actions manifest their ignorance of (or unconcern with) Jewish perspectives on Israel. Since then, the New York Presbytery has pursued additional meetings with more Jewish leaders and rabbis, seeking to understand what Israel means to individual Jews, to the Jewish community and to Judaism.

    There is no explaining these phenomena away, and no pre-emptive apologizing for Christians who show contempt toward us and our people. Jews should stand up and defend ourselves and our faith. But at the same time, if we are to deepen our understanding of other religions and other religious communities, only dialogue will get us there. The alienation this Jew personally feels in examining these two aspects of contemporary Christian America will not be overcome by silence at fundamentalists or rage at pious condemnations of Israel.

    Alienation is to be overcome by strengthening ties with other religions, learning from each person, and reminding America of the diversity of religious voices, and of their commitment to sharing God's world.

    In that context, I want to report that my Thanksgiving week included a stirring experience of interfaith worship, as Jews, Muslims, Catholics and Protestants joined at Advent Lutheran Church for a service about peace and unity. Two high points stand out: first, a terrific d'var Torah by Ibrahim Abdul Malik, secretary of the New York Imams Council, on the essential, indispensable command to love each other. "There is no Judaism, no Christianity and no Islam without love of the other," he said. He is right. He reminded us that the ultimate point of interfaith work is not pragmatic bridge building, as valuable as that is. The ultimate point is to cultivate our love for God's diverse children.

    Then, the evening concluded with AC member Jeff Segall, with his guitar, leading the group of about 100 Christians, Jews and Muslims in singing Oseh Shalom on Broadway outside the church (and freaking out a number of passers-by).

    That Thanksgiving service, for me, was worth giving thanks.

        -- Rabbi Jeremy Kalmanofsky

    Scholar-in-Residence Rabbi David Saperstein
    Shabbat, December 10 & 11
    Join Rabbi David Saperstein for a stimulating and enlightening presentation and discussion of some of the political and religious issues facing Jews in America and Israel.

    RELIGION AND STATE IN ISRAEL AND AMERICA
     

    Friday Night Lecture:
    Being the Hands of God: Jewish Social Justice at a time of Crisis and Opportunity
    Services 5:30 p.m.; Dinner 6:30 p.m.; Lecture 7:45 p.m.

    Shabbat Lunch Lecture:
    The Uses and Abuses of Jewish tradition in Contemporary Political Debates

    Lunch 12:45 p.m.; Lecture 1:45 p.m.

    Seudah Shlishit Study Session:
    The Battle for Religious Freedom and Tolerance in Israel
    4 p.m.

    Rabbi David Saperstein is the Director of the Religious Action Center of Reform Judaism, which advocates on a broad range of social justice issues and provides extensive legislative and programmatic materials used by synagogues, federations and Jewish community relations councils nationwide. He currently co-chairs the Coalition to Preserve Religious Liberty, comprising more than 50 national religious denominations and educational organizations. Also an attorney, Rabbi Saperstein teaches seminars in both First Amendment Church-State Law and in Jewish Law at Georgetown University Law Center. Rabbi Saperstein's latest book is Jewish Dimensions of Social Justice: Tough Moral Choices of Our Time.

    This Scholar-in-Residence Shabbat is funded in part by the generosity of the family of Aviva Isobel Kirsch.

    Scholar-in-Residence Registration:
    Print and return the form below to the Ansche Chesed office, 251 West 100th Street, NY NY 10025 or by email to sposen@anschechesed.org. To pay by credit card, call ext. 415. (Do not email credit card information).

    Registration for Friday night dinner is due in the office by Tuesday, December 7. Late registrations will not be accepted.
     

    Enclosed is $_____________________________

    Name(s) ________________________________

    ________________________________________

    Email or phone ____________________________

    AC Member? ____

    Friday Night
    Adults $25; Children 4-10 $10; Lecture & dessert $10
    No. Adults ____ No. Children ____
    No.vegetarians ____ Lecture only ____
     

    Shabbat Lunch
    Lunch is an organized potluck meal.
    No. Adults ____ No. Children ____
    Enclosed is $____toward the purchase of food ($10 per person)
    OR
    I/We will bring ___________________________
    (Side dish, main dish, dessert, or beverage)
     

    Seudah Shlishit Study Session
    No. Adults _____

    TOTAL ENCLOSED $____

    Supervised play in the gym will be available during the Friday evening and Shabbat lunch lectures.

     

    Shabbat Learning
    Torah Study
    With Rabbi Kalmanofsky and AC members
    Join us to discuss the weekly Torah portion. Participants are welcome on either an occasional or regular basis.
    Shabbat mornings at 9 a.m.

    Learners Minyan
    A perfect place to learn, and learn about, the Shabbat morning service in a welcoming, relaxed, intimate group. You do not need to read Hebrew characters to participate. If your family will be celebrating a bar or bat mitzvah in the near future, you may find this service especially helpful.
    Through December 11 at 10 a.m. Next session begins January 15.

    Programs for Families & Youth
    Shabbat Family Dinner
    Friday, December 17
    Please Join Us For An Ansche Chesed Family Shabbat Dinner
    On Friday, December 17th, the Family Education Committee is hosting a Family Shabbat Dinner.

    This event is designed for families with children, large appetites and boundless ruach. It is open to members and non-members, so please spread the word!

    A child-friendly Kabbalat Shabbat service will begin at 5:30 p.m. (led by Shai Specht, our Family Educator), dinner will start at 6:15 p.m., and - praise the Lord - the gym will be open for supervised play following the Birkat HaMazon, the grace after meals.

    The cost of the catered meal is $16 per adult and $10 for children 3-12. This includes a make-your-own sundae bar for the kids!

    Please call extension 412 in the AC office, 212-865- 0600, to book your spot.

    For information about family programs call Shai Specht in the AC office at ext. 412 or email Shai.Specht@anschechesed.org

     

    New York Jews Film Series Continues
    Our series of movies about New York, about Jews, with comedy, tragedy, and things in between, with pre-film commentary by AC writers, filmmakers, and movie buffs, continues on November 20.

    Enemies: A Love Story
    Saturday, December 18 at 8 p.m.
    Introduced by Hugh Nissenson, author of The Tree of Life and other books.

    Based on an Isaac Bashevis Singer story set in 1949 New York. A Holocaust survivor (Ron Silver) is involved with three women: his wife (Margaret Sophie Stein), a married woman (Lena Olin), and the wife (Anjelica Huston) he thought was killed during the war and who suddenly reappears. Directed by Paul Mazursky.
    Suggested contribution $5.
     

    Next month:
    The Pawnbroker
    Saturday, January 15 at 8 p.m.
    The Court Jester
    Sunday, January 23 at 4 p.m. For kids of all ages!

     

    News & Notes
    MAZAL TOV TO:
    November's b'nai mitzvah and their families:
    Benjamin Siegel
    Daniel Deibler
    Susannah Mathews
    Madeline Charne
     

    Amy Danziger and Richard Rabin on the naming of their daughter.
    Navah Perlman Frost and Robert Frost on the naming of their daughter.
     

    CONDOLENCES TO:
    Ellen Schorr on the death of her mother, Alice Frankel.
     

    TODA RABBA TO:
    Martin and Tamara Green for sponsoring this month's seudah shlishit in honor of Martin's birthday.
     

    Those who contributed home-cooked food for our shelter guests' Thanksgiving meal, and those who offered to staff the front desk on Thanksgiving morning: Rivka Widerman, Elana Elster, Sandra Edelman, Betsy Uhrman, Gail Mota, Esther Hautzig, Trudy Balch, Yoni Bokser, Ellen Braitman and David Shapiro. Thanks also go to Michael Bloome and Eliav Bock for organizing the Thanksgiving meal.

    B'RUCHIM HA'BAIM - Welcome to New Members:
    Dan Nichols and Danielle Schweiloch
    Deborah Shulevitz and Ori Schwartzburg and their children Aleksander and Rosa
    Robert Stillman and Paula Busse
    Sandra Gubin
     

    Donations
    As of November 30

    GENERAL DONATIONS
    Richard Ballinger in memory of his wife Anne Ballinger and his grandfather, Louis Ballinger
    Beatrice Blanco in memory of her mother, Sophie Greenberg
    Corinne Boren in memory of her father, Joseph Boren and Amanda Geffner's father, David Hirsch
    David & Amy Brauner in memory of his father, Herman Brauner
    Michael Brochstein in memory David Hirsch
    Sylvia Cohen in memory of her husband, Abraham Cohen
    Zelda Damashek in memory of her father, Max Guttman
    Judith Edelstein & James Meier
    Marshall Eisen
    Yakov Epstein & Helane Rosenberg in memory of her uncle, Melvin Caplan
    Ida Fried in memory of Eileen Zatal's mother, Sylvia Zatal
    Kenneth Fried in memory of Eileen Zatal's mother, Sylvia Zatal
    Richard Fried & Judith Merion
    Richard & Louise Gabel in memory of his father, Morris Gabel
    Eric Gertner & Nina Yahr in memory of his godfather, Harry Dwoskin
    Sarah & Neil Gillman in memory of her mother, Rose Fisher
    Ann Glassman in memory of her father, Samuel Bieler and her husband, Jerome K. Glassman
    Phil Gold in memory of Ellen Schorr's mother, Alice Frankel
    Ken Gorfinkle & Doris Ullendorff
    Rona & Walter Green in memory of her father, Ephraim Goldman
    Richard & Ronnie Grosbard in memory of his mother, Helene Grosbard
    Andrea Gural & Ram Avrahami
    Sonja Karpus
    Hilda Kauf in memory of her mother, Thea Meyerheim and her relatives, Dori and Jospeh Davidsohn
    Dawn Kellman & David Lock in memory of JF Shaw's mother, Lucille Samuelson and to welcome Hazzan Natasha Hirschhorn
    Harold Koenigsberg in memory of his mother, Helen Koenigsberg
    Vivienne Koorland & Josh Segal in memory of her relatives, Victor Joseph Koorland, Ralph Koorland, and Cecilia Koorland
    Fred Mansbach & Toni Landau in memory of his mother, Mary Mansbach and her mother, Ruth London
    Juliet Mellow & Barry Molas in honor of Herta Shriner's birthday
    Linda & Jack Messing
    Gladys Rosen in memory of her daughter, Amanda Elizabeth Rosen and her parents, Dora and Benjamin Engel
    Sylvia Rosenberg in memory of her father, Mordechai Rosenberg
    Nahma Sandrow & William Meyers in memory of her father, Rabbi Edward T. Sandrow
    Naomi Sarna in memory of her husband, Edgar Sheller
    Michael Schmidt & Lori Skopp in honor of Charles Benjamin
    Sylvia Seidman in memory of her father, Samuel Goldstein
    Morton & Joyce Shapiro in honor of their granddaughter's Emma Clapp-Shapiro second birthday
    Herta Shriner in memory of her beloved father, Max Lewin and the Fellner-Schreiner Families
    Shalom Stavsky
    Jonathan & Carol Zenilman in honor of the Notis-Lyss family
    Ronnie Millman Zolin
     

    KIDDUSH FUND
    Lillian Abraham
    Alexander & Cheryl Gould in honor of their daughter, Rachel Gould's Bat Mitzvah
    Stephen Gross in memory of his brother, Jeremy Gross
    Sylvia Rosenberg
     

    MINYAN RIMONIM KIDDUSH FUND
    Michael Brochstein in memory of Carl Schrag's father, Allen Schrag
    Phil Gold
     

    KOL NIDRE APPEAL
    Trudy Balch
    Marshall Berman & Shellie Sclan
    Eric Brachfeld & Nancy Siegel
    Kay Cynamon
    Bruce & Gina Doynow
    Robin & Jonathan Finegold
    Albert Gal & Arleen Stern
    Debra & Martin Greenberg
    Lillian & Theodore Greenfield
    Walter & Ester Hautzig
    Mara Heiman & Andrew Sunshine
    Barry Holtz & Bethamie Horowitz
    Marjorie H. Hort
    Irving Jacks
    Jeremy & Amy Kalmanofsky
    Edward & Susanne Kaplan
    Sonja Karpus
    Shaya Kline & Nan Salamon
    David & Susan Kraemer
    Lauren Kurland & Scott Cohen
    Sanford & Elaine Lacks
    Rabbi Carol Levithan
    Susan & Edward Martin
    James Meier & Judith Edelstein
    Jerome Mendlowitz
    Deborah & Solomon Mowshowitz
    Lois & Howard Nachamie
    Bettyrose Nelson
    Leah Schaefer
    Samuel & Frances Schiff
    Michael Schmidt & Lori Skopp
    Melanie Schneider & Marla Gayle
    in memory of Dina Rosenfeld's mother, Rosa Rosenfeld
    Helen & Alvin Segal
    Jeff & Rachel Segall
    Paul & Roberta Shapiro
    Rabbi Marion & William Shulevitz
    Larry Silverman
    Helen Singer & Michael Skliar
    Fred & Clauida Slavin
    Ruth Sussman
    Burton Visotzky & Sandra Edelman
    Michael & Dorothy Weiss
    Bonnie Zaben
    Amy Zarrow & Alan Divack
    Ely Zimmerman

     

    PRAYER BOOK FUND
    Esther & Walter Hautzig in memory of her parents, Raya & Samuel Rudomin
    Ernest & Heidi Kahn in memory of her father, Siegbert Vorchheimer
     

    RABBI'S DISCRETIONARY FUND
    Jacob Abraham & Katherine Sammis
    Trudy Balch
    Debra & Martin Greenberg
    William & Carol Sammis
    Diane Sharon
    Bonnie Zaben

     

    SHELTER FUND
    Philip Hamburger in memory of Joseph Hamberger
    Walter & Esther Hautzig in memory of his grandfather, Mose Zwirn
     

    YIZKOR FUND
    Harriet Geller in memory of Itzhak Geller
    Herta Shriner
    Irit Tau in memory of Aharon Tau and Fani Tau
     

    TODA RABBA to the following who made contributions following the death of Sylvia Ortiz's granddaughter, Brianna:
    Anonymous
    Corinne Boren
    Andrew Braiterman & Ronne Mandelker
    Michael Brochstein
    Deborah Brodie
    Moshe Cotel & Aliya Cheskis-Cotel
    Gary Dreiblatt & Nancy Sinkoff
    Howard Eisenberg
    Albert Gal & Arleen Stern
    Eric Gertner & Nina Yahr
    Marge Goldwater
    Jill Laurie Goodman & Melvin Bukiet
    Joshua Hanft & Claudia Chernov
    Floyd & Frances Horowitz
    Marjorie H. Hort
    Randi Jaffe & David Roe
    Dawn Kellman & David Lock
    David Kronfeld & Sarah Jacobs
    Lauren Kurland & Scott Cohen
    Rabbi Carol Levithan
    Gila & Edward Lipton
    Jocelyn Maskow
    Ronald & Elaine Morris
    Deborah & Solomon Mowshowitz
    Yocheved & Yochanan Muffs
    Sharri & Richard Posen
    Adolfo E. Profumo
    Jerome & Barrie Raik
    Amy Rosenfeld
    Alan Rosenstein & Ellen Tucker
    Samuel & Frances Schiff
    Marcia Talmage Schneider & Fred Schneider
    Carl Schrag & Beth Dinkin
    Nathan Schleifer & Marlene Stulbach
    Paul & Roberta Shapiro
    Diane Sharon
    Herta Shriner
    Rabbi Marion & William Shulevitz
    Marlene Stulbach & Nathan Schleifer
    Alan & Ellen Tucker
    Bonnie Zaben

     

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