Ansche Chesed Monthly Bulletin )
  April 2006 - Nisan/Iyyar 5766
In this issue
  • April Calendar
  • Message from the Rabbi
  • Update from the President
  • Pesach at Ansche Chesed
  • Yom HaShoah Speaker: Dr. Rochelle Saidel
  • Yom HaAtzma'ut Program May 2
  • Upcoming Events
  • News & Notes
  • Donations

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    The highlight of March is always Purim, which was, as usual, a carnival of activities. At the Purim Family Celebration we presented a new Megillat Esther; our Mishloach Manot fundraiser was a huge success, and Purim itself was properly rowdy. Our Tribute 2006 on April 1 was a fun and festive evening attended by more than 200 people, and raised funds to keep our community thriving.

    Pesach begins with the first seder on Wednesday, April 12, and Rabbi Kalmanofsky will lead a community seder on the second night, Thursday, April 13. We will observe Yom HaShoah on Monday, April 24, when Rochelle Saidel will speak about the women prisoners of the Ravensbruck concentration camp. Ansche Chesed will again participate in the community reading of names of people who perished in the Holocaust that night at the JCC. The next week, on May 2, we’ll celebrate Yom HaAtzma’ut, Israel Independence Day, with a display of photos of Israel taken by our members and a celebratory evening including a slide show of the transformation of Tel Aviv from a patch of sand into a thriving metropolis.


     

     

    April Calendar
    CANDLE LIGHTING TIMES
    4/7 Light candles 7:08
       Shabbat ends 8:10
    4/12 Light holiday candles 7:14
    4/13 Light holiday candles 8:17
    4/14 Light candles 7:16
       Shabbat ends 8:18
    4/18 Light holiday candles 7:20
    4/19 Light holiday candles 8:24
    4/21 Light candles 7:23
       Shabbat ends 8:27
    4/28 Light candles 7:30
       Shabbat ends 8:35

    SERVICE TIMES
    Morning Minyan
    Monday & Thursday 7:20 a.m.
    Tuesday, Wednesday, Friday 7:30 a.m.
    Sunday & Civil Holidays 8:30 a.m.
    Rosh Hodesh 7:15 a.m.

    Evening Minyan (Ma'ariv)
    Wednesday at 8 p.m.

    Shabbat Services
    Friday Evening Services 6:30 p.m.
    Shabbat Morning Services 10 a.m.
    Minyan Rimonim: April 1, 15
    West Side Minyan: April 8, 22
     

    Family and Children's Services 11 a.m.
    Ages 4 and under
    Ages 5-7
    Ages 8-12

    SHABBAT STUDY
    Torah Study 9 a.m.
    Religion & Science Reading Group, April 29 at 4 p.m.

    WEEK OF April 1
    Sat. 4/1 SHABBAT Parshat Yayikra
       Bat Mitzvah: Yael Rein
       Bar Mitzvah (havdalah): David Kronovet
       Tribute 2006 8 p.m.
     

    WEEK OF APRIL 2
    Mon. 2/2 Darfur Awareness Evening, 7:30 p.m.
       Israel-Zionist Reading Group, 7:45 p.m.
    Tues. 4/3 Seniors baking with Dalet class, 3:45 p.m.
       Israeli Fiction in Translation Reading Group, 7:30 p.m.
    Wed. 4/4 Senior Adult Program, Noon
       Talmud Study, 7 p.m.
       Rabbi's Pesach class, 8 p.m.
       Family Social Action Committee, 8 p.m.(off-site)
    Thurs. 4/6 Shirei Chesed, 7:30 p.m.
    Fri. 4/7 Shabbat HaGadol: Speaker from Interfaith Assembly at services
    Sat. 4/8 SHABBAT Parshat Tzav/Shabbat HaGadol
       Bar Mitzvah: Sean Toomey
       Teen Lunch with Rabbi Kalmanofsky

     

    WEEK OF APRIL 9
    Wed. 4/12 Siyyum Bekhorim following 7 a.m. morning minyan
       First Seder
    Thurs. 4/13 First Day Passover. Morning services 10 a.m.
       Mincha/Ma'ariv Services 7 p.m.
       Community Seder 7:30 p.m.
    Fri. 4/14 Second Day Passover. Morning services 10 a.m.
    Sat. 4/15 SHABBAT Hol HaMoed Pesach
       Bat Mitzvah: Sara Kaplan
     

    WEEK OF APRIL 16
    Wed. 4/19 7th Day Passover. Morning services 10 a.m.
    Thurs. 4/20 8th Day Passover. Morning services (including Yizkor) 10 a.m.
       (Morning Minyan at 7 a.m. includes Yizkor)
    Sat. 4/22 SHABBAT Parshat Shemini
     

    WEEK OF APRIL 23
    Mon. 4/24 Yom Hashoah speaker: Rochelle Saidel, 7:30 p.m.
    Tues. 4/25 Yom HaShoah
    Wed. 4/26 Talmud Study, 7 p.m.
       Board of Trustees, 8 p.m.
    Sat. 4/29 SHABBAT Tazria/Metzora; Rosh Hodesh Iyyar
       Bar Mitzvah: Aviv Lang
       Religion & Science Reading Group, 4 p.m.

     

     

    Message from the Rabbi
    Under nearly all circumstances, as I suspect everyone knows, the most important mitzvah in Judaism is pikuah nefesh, or saving a human life. When it comes to saving lives, says the Jerusalem Talmud (Yoma 45b): “HaZariz meshubach, hanishal meguneh, vehaShoel shofekh damim. When it comes to life-saving, the hasty is praise worthy, the one who is asked a question about life-saving is a disgrace, and the one who asks a question is a murderer.”

    The first and third items on that list are reasonable. One should rush in to save another, and one should not wait to ask whether this saving is halakhically necessary. Save first and ask questions later. What does the middle clause mean? What is disgraceful about being asked a question? R. Israel Isserlein of Vienna (15th century) explains that a Torah teacher who does not actively educate the community about the mitzvah of pikuah nefesh – who does not explain this mitzvah before the moment of a crisis, so people can be ready to act – such a person is no teacher at all, but a disgrace.

    I will try not to disgrace my profession by taking this moment to inform or remind you that April is National Donate Life – Organ and Tissue Donor Awareness Month. (Whew. What a mouthful of governmental prose!) There is a widespread myth that Judaism forbids organ donation. (It's usually based on superstitions, like a fear your body would not be intact when God wants to resurrect it. As if God’s miracles only extend to growing new flesh over long dead bones – not new kidneys?) In fact, most Jewish authorities regard organ donation as compulsory if you are in a position to donate a liver, kidney, heart, lung, bone marrow, or even skin and cornea. Such a gift fulfills the mitzvah of Lo ta’amod al dam re’ekha/Do not hesitate when your neighbor is at mortal risk (Leviticus 19.16). Don’t hesitate. Rush in! Save your neighbors!

    Every day, 17 people die while waiting, futilely, for a transplant. Right now, 90,000 Americans are waiting for major organ donations. Some 65,000 await kidneys. Another 17,000 are waiting for livers (both of which can be given by living donors, and certainly by deceased donors). On the brighter side, some 27,000 transplants were performed in 2004.

    I hope that each and every one of us lives until 120 and dies peacefully in our beds. But the plain, grim fact is that some of us will die prematurely, when our dying bodies can give life to others. Each of us should be prepared for that moment. Please mark your driver’s licenses to say you wish to donate organs. Please discuss your choices with family members so they know your wishes. Please get yourself into the tissue registries, so that national data bases can identify you as a match for someone. For those interested in this aspect of the question, please consult the Halakhic Organ Donor Society www.HODS.org to carry one of their cards, and to learn about the Jewish legal issues.

    May we all merit to be prepared for fulfill the mitzvah of pikuach nefesh.

    -- Rabbi Jeremy Kalmanofsky

     

    Update from the President
    At the March meeting of the Board of Trustees, the Board voted to implement the capital improvement plan presented by the building committee. Over the next few months you will see lots of cleaning, polishing, spackling, and painting going on in the lobbies, first floor bathrooms, and the Sanctuary. The contractors and our maintenance staff will work diligently to minimize any disruption and will clean extensively before Shabbat.

    We will repaint our splendid Sanctuary and improve the lighting in the room. Our Capital Campaign, to which the community so generously contributed, has allowed all this to take place. After all the necessary and essential work to our exterior and sidewalk vault, it is a pleasure to begin work within our walls to make our home a more beautiful place.

    -- Josh Hanft

     

    Pesach at Ansche Chesed
    Feeding the Hungry
    As in past years, we are collecting non-perishable packaged foods for the food pantry run by the West Side Campaign Against Hunger. Food may be brought to the AC office until Wednesday morning, April 12.

    Sale of Hametz
    If you plan on designating Rabbi Kalmanofsky to sell your hametz, please visit the synagogue during business hours up until 11:30 a.m. on Wednesday, April 12. Also, remember the Hagaddah's call: Kol dikhfeen yetey v'yehol -- All who are hungry, come and eat. Please remember to make a contribution to the Ansche Chesed Rabbi's Discretionary Fund to help feed those in need this Pesach.

    SCHEDULE OF SERVICES
    Wednesday, April 12
    Morning minyan at 7 a.m. folllowed by Siyyum of the First Born
    First Seder

    Thursday, April 13
    Morning Services 10 a.m.
    Mincha/Ma'ariv Services 7 p.m.
    Second Night Seder
    Community Seder 7:30 p.m.
     

    Friday, April 14
    Morning Services 10 a.m.
     

    Wednesday, April 19
    7th Day Pesach. Morning Services 10 a.m.
     

    Thursday, April 20
    8th day Pesach. Morning services, including Yizkor, 10 a.m.
    (Morning Minyan at 7 a.m. includes Yizkor)

     

    Yom HaShoah Speaker: Dr. Rochelle Saidel
    Monday, April 24 at 7:30 p.m.

    THE VICTIMS OF RAVENSBRUCK: LIFE AND DEATH IN A NAZI CAMP FOR WOMEN

    Dr. Rochelle G. Saidel is the founder and executive director of the Remember the Women Institute, a not- for-profit organization based in New York City that carries out and encourages research and cultural projects that integrate women into history. Her own focus is on Jewish women, especially women during the Holocaust.

    Dr. Saidel’s book, The Jewish Women of Ravensbruck Concentration Camp, includes interviews with survivors and research that began on her first visit to the camp when it was part of the German Democratic Republic in 1980. Located about fifty miles north of Berlin, Ravensbrück was the only major Nazi concentration camp for women. During its six years of operation, there were a total of about 20,000 Jewish women in the camp. (Among its prisoners was Fiorello La Guardia’s sister; their mother was an Italian Jew.) Reclaiming the lost voices of the victims and the personal accounts of the survivors, the book is the story of daily camp life with the women's thoughts about food, friendships, fear of sexual abuse, hygiene issues, slave labor, resistance, and, most important, staying alive.

     

    Yom HaAtzma'ut Program May 2
    Tuesday, May 2 at 7 p.m.

    Take a virtual tour of Israel through the eyes and camera lenses of AC photographers. Our Israel Independence Day celebration will feature a display of photos taken by members taken on their trips to Israel. Go through your albums and submit your favorites to the office by April 7. Note who took the picture and when and where it was taken, and what the subject is.

    To cap off the evening, a truly special slide presentation by Barbara E. Mann will show Tel Aviv rapidly unfolding from an empty plot of sand in 1909 into the first Hebrew city and the world capital of Bauhaus architecture.

     

    Upcoming Events
    SHIREI CHESED CONCERT
    Mark your calendars for Sunday, May 14 when we will be treated to a Mother's Day performance by Ansche Chesed's community chorus, Shirei Chesed, under the direction of Hazzan Natasha Hirschhorn. Shirei Chesed will be joined by Shiru Shiru, the Brooklyn Jewish Community Chorus, also directed by Hazzan Hirschhorn. The sanctuary will be filled with the sound of 80 voices accompanied by piano, cello, flute, violin and percussion.

    TUV HA'ARETZ THIRD SEASON
    Spring is just around the corner, and the Garden of Eve farm will once again join with Hazon's Tuv Ha'aretz program to offer the community shares of fresh vegetables, fruit, and flowers. Pickup is from AC on Wednesday evenings. Registration forms are availble at www.hazon.org.

     

     

    News & Notes
    MAZAL TOV TO:
    March’s b’nai mitzvah and their families:
    Shane Alpert
    Allegra Epstein
    Nathaniel Epstein
    Zachary Lynn
    Alex Treitel

    Steven Burdman on his engagement to Adena Abramson.
    Rabbi Iscah Waldman on her engagement to Matthew Agin.
    Carolin Daum and Ilan Melamed on their marriage. Joyce and Martin Mann on the birth of their first grandchild, Raia Honig, daughter of Stepha and Scott Honig.
    Meredith Greenberg and Leora Perlman and Gilad on the birth of Nadav, their son and brother, and to the entire Perlman family.
    Betsy and Noah Silverman on the birth and adoption of their son, Max.
     

    CONDOLENCES TO:
    Caren Raphael on the death of her father, Harvey Raphael.
    Atina Grossmann on the death of her mother, Erika Busse Grossmann.
    Jean Kunhardt Herschkowitz on the death of her father, Philip Kunhardt.

    TODAH RABBAH TO:
    Esther Altmann and Richard Cantor for hosting the new member reception on March 4.
    Miriam Kanter and Kevin Roy for contributing to the March Family Kiddush.
     

    TODAH RABBAH TO THE FAMILY PURIM CELEBRATION VOLUNTEERS:
    Nan Siegmund, Bonnie Gibel, Sharon Sonnenschein, Carolyn Lee, Cheryl Bressman, Nina Fine, Lenore Michaels, Sheryl Reich, Marla Alhadeff, Lauren Napach, Melanie Schneider, David Schnee, Susan Mandel, Tricia Lindemann, Claudia Chernov, Amy Marx , Freda Eisenberg, Tanya Taubes, Deborah Pastor, Susan Greenfield, Bob Rosenthal, and Judy Leventhal. Thanks also to AC Hebrew School students: Neshama Sonnenschein, Nicholas Heim, Ariel Cohen, Andre Manuel, Julian Michaels, Eli Hanft, Ruby Fine, and Reuben Moreland. A huge thank you to Michael Wise and Linda Goldstein for their assistance in coordinating the entire affair! Also thank you to Yaldaynu director Elaine Bloom and Iris Hellner, Yaldaynu parent, as well as Yaldaynu parents and teachers for their great enthusiasm and help in designing stations and securing materials.

    TODAH RABBAH TO THE MISHLOACH MANOT VOLUNTEERS:
    Linda Messing, Chair, and those who helped put together the Purim gift packages: Janis Leventhal, Zoe Leaf, Shoshi Shapiro, Roberta Shapiro, Wendy and Avery Katz, Terry Zisowitz, Bettina and Seferina Berch, Sam and Fran Schiff, Jennifer Kinberg, Yuri Mishkin, Batia Katz, Sara Hirade, Margalit Katz, Marjorie Hort, Stephen Gross; and to those who helped distribute the packages on Purim: Janet Scharf, Roberta Shapiro, Josh Hanft, Bonnie Leeds and Toby Cohen. And a huge thanks to Jack Messing for doing all the schlepping!

    TODAH RABBAH TO THE TRIBUTE 2006 COMMITTEE:
    Co-chairs Linda Shriner-Cahn and Leah Strigler, Bettina Berch, Debbie Greenberg, Josh Hanft, Frances Degen Horowitz, Jordan Horvath, Ruth Kaufman, Celia Reiss, Ruth Sharfman, Herta Shriner, Ellen Tucker, Judith Turner. Thanks also to Barrie Raik for photography, Naomi Cohen and Rita Falbel for performing, Jane Head and Charlie Davidson for lighting, and to Hazzan Natasha Hirschhorn and Rabbi Jeremy Kalmanofsky. And many thanks to the hard- working maintenance and office staff .

     

    Donations
    Through March 30

    GENERAL DONATIONS
    Roberta Lynn Cooper Axelrod in memory of Steve Skiena's father
    Marshall Berman
    Claudia J. Machaver and Michael W. Bloome
    Corinne Boren in memory of Jean Kunhardt Herschkowitz's father, Philip Kunhardt
    Sandee Brawarsky in honor of Eva Fogelman, Jerome and Adam Chanes
    Deborah Brodie in honor of the Bat Mitzvah of Avital Morris, i n memory of Elaine Morris's mother and Elinor Hoffman's mother
    Dianne Cohler-Esses in memory of the mother of Elaine Morris and the mother of Elinor Hoffman and in honor of David and Shana Roskies
    Kay Cynamon
    Michelle Dingoor in honor of her father, Naji Dingoor's, 70th birthday; in honor of her sister, Karen Strauss', 40th birthday
    Rachel Dinerstein and Benjamin Geballe
    Mr. And Mrs. Daniel Goldberg
    Natasha and Shimon Hirschhorn
    Elinor and Roald Hoffmann
    Bethamie Horowitz and Barry Holtz
    Rebecca and Michael Kaufman
    Lea and Marvin Konopko
    Irwin and Elaine Markow in memory of Ruth Awner
    Ann Dobrejcer and Michael Paley in memory of Elaine Morris' mother and Ira Silverstein's father, Meyer Silverstein
    Eric Peterman In memory of Irving Allerhand, Joseph Allerhand's father
    Dr. Leah C. Schaefer wishing all my friends and family a happy Purim
    Paul and Roberta Shapiro in memory of Julius Kupietz
    David and Linda Shriner-Cahn Happy Purim to all
    Herta Shriner Happy Purim to all my friends
    Nancy Sinkoff in memory of her mother, Alice Sinkoff and in honor of the Bat Mitzvah of Ariel Cohen and Avital Moris
    Valerie Wald
    Terry Sue Zisowitz
     

    YAHRZEIT DONATIONS
    Margaret Adlerman in memory of her husband, Mr. Edwin Adlerman
    Beatrice Blanco in memory of her father, Max Greenberg
    Monique Breindel in memory of her brother, Eric Breindel
    Deborah Brodie in memory of her mother, Edith Shapiro
    Evelyn Cohen in memory of her mother, Birdie Pitchenik Haber and her father, Benjamin Pitchenik
    Zelda Damashek in memory of her mother, Sally Guttman
    Susan Dickman in memory of her father, Nathan Dickman
    Howard Eisenberg in memory of his wife, Arlene Eisenberg
    Rabbi Ellen Flax in memory of her mother, Doris Flax
    Ruth Fuhrman in memory of her brother-in- law, Lester Koren
    Ruth Gelfand in memory of her uncle, Solomon Landsman
    Neil Gillman in memory of his mother, Rebecca Gillman
    Marilyn P. Goldberg in memory of her uncle, Philip (Frankie) Goldberg
    Tamara and Martin Green in memory of Tamara's father, Rabbi Robert Marcus
    Debra and Martin Greenberg in memory of Martin's father, Solomon Greenberg and his mother, Evelyn Greenberg and Debra's father, Martin Feldman
    Joni Greenspan in memory of her father, Philip Greenspan
    Ronnie Grosbard in memory of her father, Sol Geliebter
    Sophia Gutherz in memory of her mother, Genia Gutherz
    Marjorie Hort in memory of her mother, Jessie M. Cohen
    Jan Caryl Kaufman in memory of her grandmother, Sarah Deutch and her grandfather, Abraham Deutch
    A. Marvin Konopko in memory of his daughter, Peninah Musha Konopko and his sister-in- law, Miriam Sandberg
    Deborah Konopko in memory of her sister, Peninah Konopko
    Richard Mark in memory of his step-father, Fred W. Friendly and his father, Sandor Mark
    Irene Melup in memory of her sister, Zula Melup
    Jack and Linda Messing in memory of Linda's mother, Frieda Zaban Waldman
    Martin Miller in memory of his mother, Fay Miller and his father, David Miller
    Paula Milla-Kreutzer in memory of her faher, Emilio Milla
    Ronald Morris in memory of his brother, Joel Morris
    Rita M. and Sol Rosenkranz in memory of his father-in-law, Sam Cooper
    Nahma Sandrow in memory of her grandfather, Nahum J. Sandrow
    Dr. Leah C. Schaefer in memory of her brother, Haskel Cahan
    Samuel and Frances Schiff in memory of Samuel's father, Henry Schiff and mother, Lina Schiff
    Irwin Sollinger in memory of his mother, Trudy Kroll Lippmann Saper Stein
    Hannah Tannenbaum in memory of her husband, Oscar Tannenbaum
    Eli, Raya and Dalia Terry in memory of their mother, Beth Levine
    Larry Warmflash in memory of his sister, Deborah Warmflash
    Ian Yudelman in memory of his mother, Lena Yudelman
    Alan Divack and Amy Zarrow in memory of Harry and Evelyn Zarrow

     

    TRIBUTE 2006 DONATIONS
    Bruce O. Becker in honor of Martin and Tamara Green
    Elizabeth Cullen and Stephen G. Chertkof in honor of Rabbi Marion Ruth Shulevitz
    Stephen G. Evangelides in honor of Rabbi Marion Shulevitz
    Sibyl R. Golden in honor of Shana Novick Roskies
    William T. Golden in honor of Shana Roskies
    Anna Lank
    Fred Levinson
    Rachelle Gribetz and Alan Laytner
    Robin and Stephen Garfinkel in honor of Dovid and Shana Novick Roskies
    Nancy M. and Everett Phillips in honor of Rabbi Marion Ruth Shulevitz
    Sanford and Stephie Rakofsky in honor of Martin and Tamara Green
    Linda and Robert Roth in honor of Martin and Tamara Green
    Richard Roth in honor of Martin and Tamara Green
    Christine Evangelides-Donovan in honor of Rabbi Marion Shulevitz
    Harriet F. Siden in honor of Rabbi Marion Shulevitz
    Laurel Durst and Ed Strong in honor of Shana Novick Roskies
    Ester Fuchs and Daniel Victor in honor of Dovid and Shana Novick Roskies
    Etta B. Zivian in honor of Rabbi Shulevitz
     

    SHELTER FUND
    Yael Aloni-Netzer and Ariel A. Aloni
    Trudy Balch
    Benyamin Cirlin and Miriam Benhaim
    Elysa Dauerman
    Rita Falbel
    Robert and Navah Perlman Frost
    Laura Gold
    Eitan Goldman
    Esther Hautzig
    Susan Heuman
    Rebecca and Michael Kaufman
    Judith Berman and David Kohn
    Anna Lank
    Jennifer and Gregory Lyss
    Joyce and Martin Mann
    Susan Martin
    Yuri Mushkin
    Carolyn Cohen and Ruby Namdar
    Lisa Nord and Jay Podberesky
    Stephen and Anna Falla Riff
    Jennifer Rosenberg
    Rachel Lulov and Jeff F. Segall
    Rachel Shalmon in memory of her mother, Shoshanna Shalmon
    Jane Frances M. Shaw
    Marion and William Shulevitz
    Laura A. Clark and Mark Sirota
    Bonita and Isaac Vander
     

    RABBI'S DISCRETIONARY FUND
    Vicki Abrams
    Deborah Brodie
    Stephen Burdman
    Elinor and Roald Hoffmann
    A. Marvin Konopko in memory of his beloved wife, Lea Konopko
    Darkhei Noam
    Marcia Talmage and Fredric Schneider
    Michael Trencher
    Elizabeth and Jon Warms
    Sylvia Weber in memory of her mother, Jennie Lang
     

    SANCTUARY MINYAN KIDDUSH FUND
    Vivian Awner
    Oscar Awner
    Mollie and Bettina Berch in honor of the first anniversary of Seferina's Bat Mitzvah
    Steven and Linda Bloom
    Mary and Paul Feinberg in honor of the Bar Mitzvah of Sam Riggs and the Bat Mitzvah of Avital Morris
    Walter Hautzig in memory of his sister, Gertrude Schorr
    Ernest G. Kahn in memory of his sister, Ruth S. Weiss
    Bernard Laterman in honor of the birth of their first grandchild
    Paul and Roberta Shapiro in honor of Larry and Marilyn Levi
    Herta Shriner
     

    HEBREW SCHOOL MEGILLAH
    Deborah Pastor and Aaron Carl Brown
    Harriet Geller
    Bruce and Patricia Heim
    Rebecca and Tomomi Hirade
    Rebecca and Michael Kaufman
    Yochanan and Yocheved Muffs
    Samantha Schmukler
    Marla Gayle and Melanie Schneider in honor of their 2 daughters, Sasha and Eliana Gayle- Schneider, AC Hebrew School students from Pre-K and in honor of Sasha becoming a Bat Mitzvah.
    Alina & Scott Wickham

     

    MUSIC FUND
    Janet Leuchter in memory of Natsha Hirschhorn's grandmother, Sarah Izrael
     

    HEBREW SCHOOL FUND
    Ira Krell
     


     

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