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APRIL CALENDAR |
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CANDLELIGHTING TIMES
April 4 -7:06pm / Shabbat ends 8:07pm
April 11 - 7:13pm / Shabbat ends 8:15pm
April 18 - 7:20pm
April 19 - Light holiday candles after 8:10pm
April 20 - Light holiday candles after 8:12pm
April 25 - 7:28 p.m.
April 26 - Light holiday candles 8:20pm / Yom Tov
ends 8;25pm
SHABBAT SERVICES
Friday Evening Services 6:30pm
Shabbat Morning Services 10am
Minyan Rimonim: April 5, 19
West Side Minyan: April 12, 26
Family and Children's Services 11am
Mishpacha Shabbat (Ages 3 and under). Followed
by kiddush and playtime.
Minyan Yigdal (Ages 4 to 7)
Big Kids Service (Ages 8 to 12)
Teen Tefillah April 5, 12 (Post- b'nai mitzvah)
Shabbat Parashat
HaShavua Study 9:30am
With Rabbi David Gedzelman through April 26
With Rabbi Jeremy Kalmanofsky beginning May 3
MORNING MINYAN
Tuesday, Wednesday, Friday 7:30am
Monday, Thursday 7:20am
Sunday and Civil Holidays 8:30am
APRIL 5-6
Sat. Apr. 5
SHABBAT / Tazria /
Shabbat HaHodesh
Bar Mitzvah: Steven Siegel
Sun. April 6
Passover Seder Program w/ David Arnow 3pm
Parochet Project for Children 3pm
APRIL 7-13
Tues. Apr. 8 Panim el Panim 6:30pm
Wed. Apr. 9
Chocolate Seder for Grades 6-8
ACT Foundation 7pm
Talmud Study 7pm
Thurs. Apr. 10
Chocolate Seder for Grades 3-5
Panim el Panim 6:30pm
Shirei Chesed 7:45pm
Fri. Apr. 11
AC Hebrew School Services and Dinner 6pm
Sat. Apr. 12 SHABBAT /
Metzora
Bar Mitzvah: Michael Zloof
Psalms Reading Group 4pm
Sun. April 13
ACT Foundation 10:30am
APRIL 14-20
Tues. Apr. 15
Panim el Panim 6:30pm
Wed. Apr. 16
ACT Foundation 7pm
Talmud Study 7pm
Thurs. Apr. 17
Panim el Panim 6:30pm
Shirei Chesed 7:45pm
Fri. Apr. 18
Community Shabbat Dinner
Sat. Apr. 19
SHABBAT / Aharei
Mot / Shabbat HaGadol
First Passover Seder
Sun. Apr. 20
Morning Services 10am
Second Passover Seder
Community Seder
APRIL 21-27
Mon. Apr. 21
Morning Services 10am
Sat. Apr. 26
SHABBAT PESAH
Sun. Apr. 27
Last Day Passover - Morning Services 10am
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SATURDAY NIGHT SEDER
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This year, Passover
begins on Saturday night - an inconvenient turn of the
calendar that happens rarely enough that people can
forget how to handle their Pesach cleaning and disposal
of Hametz. (It will not occur again until 2021.)
Here are some notes to help you have a Hag
Kasher v'Sameah, a happy and Kosher holiday.
Fast of the First
Born - Taanit Bekhorim
First, an adjustment is
made in the customary "fast of the first born" on the
day before the Seder. (Incidentally, the legal tradition
records an opinion that first-born females fast, too. An
unexpectedly egalitarian view.) Since one does not fast
on Shabbat, the fast of the first-born is advanced. But
advanced by how much? It is thought to be burdensome and
a spoiling of the Shabbat spirit to fast on Friday
(although if Pesach were to begin on Friday night, one
would fast on Friday anyway). Instead, we fast on
Thursday, from dawn to sundown. However, it is most
common for people to attend synagogue that morning to
participate in the conclusion of a major study project
and the celebratory meal that follows. So on Thursday
April 17, please come to morning services and I will
make a Siyyum on tractate Sotah.
Search for Leaven
- Bedikat Hametz
In most years, the night
before the Seder, just after sundown but before dark,
one searches one's property to ensure that no Hametz
is in one's possession. (It is forbidden not only to
consume Hametz on Passover, but even to own it.)
This year, however, we advance this practice by one day,
to Thursday night. The custom is to check with a candle
and feather to get into the nooks and crannies. (Be sure
to make this a symbolic check. Every year or two, an
overzealous checker burns down the apartment by igniting
the drapes. So stay away from fabric, furniture and
carpets.) My family and many others make this into a fun
game for the kids, by hiding a certain number of packets
of Hametz around the house.
Before searching, say a
blessing: Barukh Ata Adonay, Elohenu Melekh HaOlam,
Asher Kideshanu BeMitzvotav, v'Tzivanu al Bi'ur Hametz.
Blessed is God, Master of the Cosmos, who makes us holy
and commands us regarding removal of leaven. After that,
one says a formula to nullify, or renounce ownership of
leaven. This formula is given in prayerbooks and
Haggadot in the vernacular Aramaic, so it is fine, even
preferable, to say it in English: Any leaven in my
possession of which I am unaware and which I have not
yet destroyed, is hereby considered nullified, like the
dust of the earth.
Destroying Leaven
- Bi'ur Hametz
In most years, the next
morning after the search, before Hametz becomes
prohibited to eat and even for any economic or practical
benefit, one should destroy the last bits of the
Hametz from the night before. Usually this is done
by burning (and Ansche Chesed always has a small bonfire
for this purpose), but one may also crumble it and
scatter it to the wind or throw it in the ocean, or any
other method. This year, the day after the search will
not be the day before the Seder - it will be
Friday, fully 36 hours before the Saturday night Seder.
So there is no particular need to destroy the Hametz
by a certain hour on Friday. We will still have a Friday
morning fire at the shul, so we do not lose practice at
the customary burning. But if you miss the morning fire,
you should still burn or scatter your Hametz
sometime on Friday, before Shabbat begins. Since this
Friday act does not coincide with the prohibition on
economic benefit from Hametz as it does on most
years, there is no need to recite the final
nullification formula, as you normally would.
Instead, one should
recite that formula on Saturday morning before 11:47,
when the prohibition on Hana'ah [benefit] takes
effect: Any leaven in my possession, whether I am
aware or unaware of it, which I have destroyed or not
yet destroyed, is hereby considered nullified, like the
dust of the earth.
Kashering Your
Home
In most years, one should complete the
Kashering process by the time the prohibition of
eating Hametz kicks in. This year, because that
time kicks in on Shabbat morning, one has to prepare a
bit earlier: All the kitchen transformations and
Kashering of appliances must be complete before
lighting candles for Shabbat, at 7:20 p.m.
Shabbat Meals
So what should you eat on Shabbat? Three states
of affairs conflict: 1) the kitchen must be ready for
Passover, 2) one should eat three Shabbat meals,
including saying HaMotzi over bread, and 3) one
is forbidden to eat Matza on the day before the Seder.
(On this last point, many people avoid Matza for three
days or even 30 days before Passover, but the actual law
is only to avoid it on the day of the Seder. Still, I
recommend avoiding Matza for the whole preceding month,
not because of traditionalism, but because it
intensifies the experience of eating Matza at the Seder
itself.)
For those who wish to keep these laws
scrupulously, there are two basic options. The easiest
is to be fully Pesach-dik one day early, rid all
your home of Hametz on Friday before Shabbat,
exactly as you would on any other year (and say the
nullification formula on Friday before Shabbat, not as
advised above), and eat only Kosher for Pesach
food on Shabbat. Then, say HaMotzi at the meals
on Shabbat over what the sources call Matza Ashira
("rich matza") or what we usually call "egg Matza." Egg
Matza is a kind of middle ground food: it is
sufficiently close to Matza to be considered bread for
purposes of saying HaMotzi, but not truly Matza,
such that one could use it for the mitzvah of eating
Matza at the Seder. [This is tactic recommended by R.
Moshe Feinstein. Note: many Ashkenazim have the
tradition of not eating egg Matza at all on Passover.
Even if that is your practice, it is universally agreed
that one can eat it before Passover actually begins.]
But some people will
find that extra day of a Hametz free zone to be
burdensome. So here is another option: one can simply
keep a small, defined and well-guarded amount of
Hametz food in your home for Friday night dinner,
and make HaMotzi over regular Challah. In
that case, one might want to eat on paper plates and be
careful with the crumbs. Then after Friday night dinner,
dispose of the remains thoroughly and be certain to
shake out your tablecloth well, then store it away with
the Hametz dishes. This practice can apply to
Saturday morning breakfast as well.
What about Shabbat
lunch? Since the prohibition of eating Hametz
kicks in at 10:40 Saturday morning, obviously one cannot
eat Challah at lunch. In some very traditional
settings, they make a point of beginning Shabbat morning
prayers at 6:30 or 7 a.m., so they can complete
davvening early enough for a full meal. Should Ansche
Chesed try that this year? On second thought . . .
let's davven at the regular time. But in this case, one
could only use egg matza for HaMotzi on Shabbat.
For Seuda Shelishit, the third meal in the
afternoon, one may either say HaMotzi on egg
matza or, in this difficult situation, simply omit the
bread, and restrict the meal to fruit, veggies or fish.
Since it is desirable to be hungry during the Seder, I
recommend eating a very small Seuda Shelishit.
-- Rabbi Jeremy
Kalmanofsky
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PASSOVER NOTES
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PASSOVER
LEARNING
Sunday,
April 6, 3:00-5:00 p.m.
Join David Arnow,
author of the popular work
Creating Lively
Passover Seders, to explore how to balance ritual
and spontaneity in your seder. No fee. (Children may
participate at the same time in a project to create a
new ark curtain for family services. $10 per person or
$20 per family).
Tuesday, April 8, 7:30-9:00 p.m.
Rabbi Kalmanofsky will lead a learning session:
Who Knows
Four . . . Questions, Cups, and Children?
Many motifs in the Passover Seder are based on the
number four. How do these correlate? What do all these
fours add up to? We'll look especially at the image of
the four questioning children to help prepare ourelves
for a night of deep questions.
Pre-Passover Shabbat Dinner
Friday, April 18
Relax after your holiday cleaning, and take a
break from cooking. Join us at AC for a pre-Pesah
Shabbat dinner. Adults $35 / Children 4-12 $15.
Reserve by calling 212.865.0600 ext. 202.
Home Hospitality for the First Passover
Seder
Saturday, April 19
No one should be alone on Pesah.
Ansche Chesed members who are hosting seders have
traditionally opened their homes to members who need a
place to attend the seder. If you would like to attend
or host someone for the first night of Pesah,
please contact the office by calling 212.865.0600 ext.
205 or by email at sposen@anschechesed.org.
Second
Night Community Seder at Ansche Chesed
Sunday, April 20
Rabbi Kalmanofsky will lead a seder for all ages. Join
friends from the AC community and beyond to ask our
questions and tell the story of our people's
liberation. We will be using the Feast of Freedom
Haggadah, which is available at West Side Judaica. A
limited number of haggadot will be provided. Cost: AC
members and guests $70; Seniors & Students $55;
Non-members $84; Children ages 4-12 $25. Vegetarian and
fish options are available. To reserve, please call
212.865.0600 ext. 205 or email sposen@anschechesed.org.
The gym will be open for supervised play after the start
of the seder meal. The seder will begin at 7:15 p.m.
Mincha/Ma'ariv services will be held at 6:45 p.m.
Feeding
the Hungry
As in past years, we are collecting non-perishable
packaged foods for the food pantry run by the West Side
Campaign Against Hunger. Food may be brought to the
Ansche Chesed office until Friday mroning, April 18.
Monetary contributions are also welcome; checks should
be payable to the Ansche Chesed Rabbi's Fund or WSCAH.
Sale of
Hametz
If you plan on designating Rabbi Kalmanofsky to sell
your hametz,
please visit the synagogue during business hours up
until noon on Friday, April 18. You may also do this by
email. Write to Rabbi Kalmanofsky at
rjk@anschechesed.org. Be sure to include your address
and apartment number. It is also customary to make a
donation to the AC Rabbi's Discretionary Fund to help
feed those in need.
Book of
Remembrance
The Book of Remembrance lists those close to us who have
passed away, but who have not been forgotten. It is
published in the fall and spring each year, and is
distributed to congregants on the four days on which we
say Yizkor, the memorial service: the last day of
Passover, the second day of Shavuot, Yom Kippur, and
Shemini Atzeret. Please return your form to the office
with your contribution by Thursday, April 17.
PASSOVER
SCHEDULE
Thursday, April 17
Morning minyan 7:20 a.m., followed by siyyum of the
first born.
Search for hametz between sunset and darkness.
Friday, April 18
Kabbalat Shabbat Services 6:30 p.m.
Community Dinner 7:30 p.m.
Saturday, April 19
Shabbat Morning Services 10:00 a.m.
Stop eating hametz by 10:40 a.m.
Candle lighting not before 8:10 p.m.
First Seder
Sunday, April 20
Morning Services 10:00 a.m.
Candle lighting ideally after 8:12 p.m., but permissible
earlier
Second Seder
Minha/Ma'ariv 6:45 p.m.
AC Community Seder 7:15 p.m.
Saturday, April 26
Shabbat and Pesah Morning Services 10:00 a.m.
Sunday, April 27
Morning Services 10:00 a.m., including Yizkor.
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YOM HaATZMA'UT CONCERT
WITH SHORASHIM AND SHIREI CHESED
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Sunday, May 4, 7:00
p.m.
With young, talented musicians from
Israel and their band, Shorashim, in "For the
Bitter and the Sweet, Celebrating 60 Years of Israel in
Song." Shorashim will be joined by community chorus
Shirei Chesed andHazzan
Natasha Hirschhorn. With vocalists
Magda Fishman, pianist Yuval Cohen, and Ya'aki Levi on
percussion. $10 in advance / $15 at
the door / Children under 13 free.
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SHABBAT LEARNING
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Mysticism, Midrash, and More
Rabbi David Gedzelman
Join Rabbi David Gedzelman on Shabbat mornings to look
at the weekly Torah portion through the lens of various
Hasidic masters, midrashim, and traditional
commentaries. Open up the language of the Hebrew bible
to an exploration of meaning and spirituality on both
the level of personal journey and process, and the level
of communal values and ideals.
Shabbat mornings,
9:30-10:30am
Through April 26
Parashat HaShavua with Rashi and Rashbam
Rabbi Jeremy Kalmanofsky
Rashi and Rashbam, who lived in France in the 11th and
12th centuries, forever changed the way Jews would study
Torah. They developed new methods for uncovering what
they viewed as the Torah's simple meaning, redrawing the
boundaries of "traditional Jewish interpretation." Join
us to see the weekly reading through their eyes.
Shabbat mornings,
9:30-10am
Next
series begins May 3
Psalms
for the Heart
Rabbi Jeremy Kalmanofsky
This reading group will look at the Psalms as devotional
texts. For centuries, Jews have sought solace,
strength, and religious inspiration in these poems for
times of joy and trouble. Everyone is invited to
discuss familiar and unfamiliar texts, and to see how
they might shape your spiritual experience.
Monthly, Shabbat
afternoons at 4pm. Next session April 12
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FAMILY PROGRAM NEWS
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Preparing
for Pesah: Two Special Programs
Sunday, April 6,
3:00-5:00 p.m.
FOR ADULTS: Join David Arnow to explore how the
Seder can be what the ancient Sages intended: a careful
balance of ritual and spontaneity.
We'll talk about why it can be difficult to create an
engaging experience and discuss some activities that can
be used at your family's Seder.
FOR CHILDREN: Create a New Parochet
The parochet is the curtain that is at the front
of the ark protecting the Torah scrolls.
We will be making new curtains for the Big Kids
Service and for Minyan Yigdal. With Mindy Fischer and
Rabbi Lauren Kuland.
RSVPs required to
Sarah.ACHS@gmail.com. Cost: $10
per person or $20 per family.
AC's
Second Annual Chocolate Seders!
Enjoy 4 cups of chocolate milk, bitter
"herb" chocolate, and chocolate matzah! A pizza dinner
will also be served. $10 per child at the door. All
are invited! RSVP to Sarah Waxman at 212.865.0600 ext.
207 or sarah.achs@gmail.com.
For Grades 6-8:
Wednesday, April 9, 6:00-7:00 p.m.
For Grades 3-5:
Thursday, April 10, 6:00-7:00 p.m.
ACT Foundation Hears Presentations
ACT, the Ansche Chesed Tzedakah foundation for b'nai
mitzvah students, has an exciting month ahead.
Within the next three weeks, the group will hear
presentations from seven Africa organizations who are
traveling to us from New York, Washington D.C.,
Connecticut, and Canada. The students hear
presentations and decide to which organizations they
would like to donate the ACT money. Visitors will
come from Student Movement for Real Change, Witness,
Water Aid America, American Jewish World Service,
American Friends of Kenya, American Red Cross, and
International Charity for Africa.
Celebrate
Yom HaAtzma'ut With Your Family
Sunday, May 4
For Pre-School Children and Their Families: 10:30
a.m.-12:00 noon
A hands-on celebration of Israel's 60th birthday with
song and dance, arts, and crafts, and refreshments. All
are welcome. $20 per family.
For Children 5 Years and
Older 4:00-6:00 p.m.
The festivities begin with the premiere of "The
Torch and The Sun," an original Ansche Chesed production
starring the children of AC, commemorating Yom HaZikaron
and honoring Yom HaAtzm'aut, Israel Independence Day.
Followed by Israeli dancing and dinner. $25 per family.
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MARCH DONATIONS
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GENERAL DONATIONS
Deborah Brodie in honor of
the birthdays of Ellen Braitman, David Shapiro, David
Roskies, Rabbi Marion Shulevitz, the bat mitzvah of Anna
Peterman, and in honor of Michelle Dingoor, Alan Divack
and Josh Hanft for their work on the tribute Journal; in
memory of Lester Herschlag, brother of Yocheved Muffs
Michael Brochstein in memory of Isaac Meyers, son
of William Meyers and Nahma Sandrow
Ann Hiatt in memory of Isaac Meyers, son of
William Meyers and Nahma Sandrow
Frances Degen Horowitz in honor of Yocheved and
Yochanan Muffs, a wonderful and dedicated couple
Barry Holtz and Bethamie Horowitz in memory of
Isaac Meyers, son of William Meyers and Nahma Sandrow
Marjorie Hort in memory of Isaac Meyers, son of
William Meyers and Nahma Sandrow
Leah Silberman Jenner
David Lock and Dawn Kellman in memory of Isaac
Meyers, son of William Meyers and Nahma Sandrow
Stephen and Carol Koenigsberg in honor of Roberta
Koenigsberg and her dedication to our mother, and with
thanks to Rabbi Kalmanofsky and his wonderful care and
attention for our family during a time of need
Selma Kronengold in honor of Yocheved and
Yochanan Muffs
Salomee Lindenbaum in honor of Yocheved and
Yochanan Muffs
Joan Rosenbaum in honor of Yocheved and Yochanan
Muffs
Ruth and Ira Salzman in memory of Isaac Meyers,
son of William Meyers and Nahma Sandrow, in honor of
Sarah Jacobs, and in honor of Michael Schmidt's new
position
Saul Scheidlinger and Rosalyn Tauber Scheidlinger
Robert and Naomi Schwartz in memory of Isaac Meyers,
beloved son of William Meyers and Nahma Sandrow
Judy Margolin and Seth Schwartz in honor of the
60th birthday of David Roskies and the 40th birthday of
Jenny Lyss
Ira and Lenore Silverstein in memory of Sophie
Seidlin, mother of Mindell Seidlin
Amy and Paul Sklar in honor of Gabriel Levine's
Bar Mitzvah
Joyce Slochower in honor of Anna Sydney
Peterman's Bat Mitzvah
Fanny Steinhauser
Sandy and Burt Visotzky in honor of Jenny Lyss's
birthday
Suzanne and Michael Weinstein in memory of Rae
Koenigsberg, mother of Roberta Koenisgsberg
Terry Sue Zisowitz
YAHRZEIT DONATIONS
Vivian Awner in memory of her mother, Ruth Awner
Richard Ballinger in memory of his grandmother,
Celia Felder
Zelda Damashek in memory of her mother, Sally
Guttman
Emanuel Derman in memory of his father, Chaim
Derman
Jerome Ehrlich in memory of his father, Isidore
Ehrlich
Ellen Flax in memory of her mother, Doris Flax
Lucy Geldzahler in memory of her father, Adolphe
Fischer
Sara Fisher Gillman in memory of her father,
Harry Fisher
Lisa Greenberg in memory of her father, Jack
Greenberg
Sandra Gubin in memory of her father, Benjamin
Gubin
Renee Hausman in memory of her son, Erik Hausman
Frances Degen Horowitz and Floyd Horowitz in
memory of Floyd's father, Joseph Horowitz, his aunt,
Dorothy Horowitz, and Mindell Seidlin's mother, Sophie
Seidlin
Jerome Mendlowitz in memory of his mother, Mayme
Mendlowitz
Karen Palmer in memory of her father, Richard
Druckman
William Shulevitz in memory of his father, Norman
Shulevitz
Dr. Ian M. Yudelman in memory of his mother, Lena
Yudelman
Amy Zarrow in memory of her mother, Evelyn Zarrow
RABBI'S FUND
Paul and Mary Feinberg
Roberta and Stephen Koenigsberg
Josef Najar
SANCTUARY MINYAN KIDDUSH FUND
Paul and Mary Feinberg
David Kaplan
PURIM DONATIONS
Karen Palmer
SHELTER FUND
Ariel Aloni-Netzer and Yael Aloni
Vicki Brower in memory of Isaac Meyers, son of
William Meyers and Nahma Sandrow; Yocheved Muffs'
brother, Lester Herschlag; and in honor of Yochanan and
Yocheved Muffs, David Roskies' birthday, and Anna
Peterman's Bat Mitzvah
Benyamin Cirlin
Howard Eisenberg
Sylvia Ettenberg
Judith Merion and Richard Fried
Robert Frost and Navah Perlman Frost
Melanie Schneider and Marla Gayle
Arthur and Ellen Giglio
Nancy L. Greenbaum
Rebecca Joseph
Rick and Lauren Koffler
Vera and Morton Leifman
Janet Leuchter in memory of Isaac Meyers, son of
William Meyers and Nahma Sandrow and Rick Posen, husband
of Sharri Posen
Carole Levy
Deborah Krohn and Peter Miller
Sara Shapiro-Plevan and William Plevan
Ellen Rafel
Eric Peterman and Ellen Resnick
Ruth and Ira Salzman
Joseph and Bonnie Schinagle
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NEWS & NOTES
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Condolences to the following
members and their families:
Nathaniel Persily on the death of his mother,
Nancy Persily,
also an AC member.
Nahma Sandrow, William
Meyers and Hannah
Meyers on the death of their son and brother,
Isaac Meyers.
Mazal Tov to:
March's B'nai Mitzvah and their families:
Ethan Levenson
Gabriel Levine
Maxwell Padway
Jack Stevenson
Lily Young
Lisa Brunner and Amir
Babayoff on the birth of their daughter, Amelia
Noa.
Amy and Robert Tuchman on the birth of their
daughter, Mia.
Todah Rabbah to March
Shelter Volunteers:
(Names in bold indicate AC members)
Pat Corrigan, Yonina Creditor,
Carol Cutler,
Alan Divack, Allie Fleder, Matthew Feigin,
Woody Freiman, Joel Friedman, Elliot Fruchter, Ellen
Gerber, Uri Goldberg,
JTS Students, Kehilat Hadar, Gary Kallman, Dan
Kaplan, Joyce Karagu, Ira Krell,
KOE Minyan, Tatyana Leifman, Reuben Levavi,Alex
Levine, Joyce Mann,
Jocelyn Maskow, Andy Menkis, Daniel Messing,
Linda Messing, Elizabeth Silberman & Zoe Goldfarb,
Rachel Obenshain, Julien Ryu, Kate Schaefer, Dan
Schwarzbaum, Kate Sharp, Aliza Shupac, Josh
Steingraber, David Tabatsky, Michael Wise.
And many thanks to Charlie Davidson, Shelter
Coordinator, Michael Bloome, Assistant
Coordinator, and Josh Abrams, Volunteer Coordinator.
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