Ansche Chesed Monthly News
April 2008 - Adar II / Nisan 5768

In This Issue
April Calendar
Saturday Night Seder
Passover Notes
Yom HaAtzma'ut Concert
Shabbat Learning
Family Program News
March Donations
News & Notes
April Highlights

Passover is around the corner.  This year Rabbi Kalmanofsky will again be leading a second night seder for all ages. And for all those who have had enough cooking and cleaning, AC will be having a pre-Passover community Friday night dinner on April 18. 

You can begin to prepare for Pesah by attending a workshop on Sunday, April 6 with David Arnow on how to make your seder lively and engaging, and on Tuesday, April 8, Rabbi Kalmanofsky will lead a learning session on the siginficance of the number four.

See Passover Notes below for complete information.

We look forward to celebrating Yom HaAtzma'ut, Israel Independence Day, with family programs on Sunday, May 4, and with a special concert with the Israeli group Shorashim and the participation of Shirei Chesed, our community chorus.



APRIL CALENDAR
CANDLELIGHTING TIMES
April 4 -7:06pm / Shabbat ends 8:07pm
April 11 - 7:13pm / Shabbat ends 8:15pm
April 18 -  7:20pm
April 19 - Light holiday candles after 8:10pm
April 20 - Light holiday candles after 8:12pm
April 25 - 7:28 p.m.
April 26 - Light holiday candles 8:20pm / Yom Tov ends 8;25pm

SHABBAT SERVICES
Friday Evening Services 6:30pm
Shabbat Morning Services 10am
Minyan Rimonim: April 5, 19
West Side Minyan: April 12, 26

Family and Children's Services 11am
Mishpacha Shabbat (Ages 3 and under).  Followed by kiddush and playtime.
Minyan Yigdal (Ages 4 to 7)
Big Kids Service (Ages 8 to 12)
Teen Tefillah April 5, 12 (Post- b'nai mitzvah)

Shabbat Parashat HaShavua Study 9:30am
With Rabbi David Gedzelman through April 26
With Rabbi Jeremy Kalmanofsky beginning May 3
 
MORNING MINYAN
Tuesday, Wednesday, Friday 7:30am
Monday, Thursday 7:20am
Sunday and Civil Holidays 8:30am

APRIL 5-6
Sat. Apr. 5  SHABBAT / Tazria / Shabbat HaHodesh 
        Bar Mitzvah: Steven Siegel
Sun. April 6 Passover Seder Program w/ David Arnow 3pm
       Parochet Project for Children 3pm

APRIL 7-13
Tues. Apr. 8
Panim el Panim 6:30pm
Wed. Apr. 9 Chocolate Seder for Grades 6-8
       ACT Foundation 7pm
       Talmud Study 7pm    
Thurs. Apr. 10  Chocolate Seder for Grades 3-5
        Panim el Panim 6:30pm
        Shirei Chesed 7:45pm
Fri. Apr. 11  AC Hebrew School Services and Dinner 6pm
Sat. Apr. 12
  SHABBAT / Metzora
        
Bar Mitzvah: Michael Zloof
        Psalms Reading Group 4pm        
Sun. April 13  ACT Foundation 10:30am

APRIL 14-20
Tues. Apr. 15  Panim el Panim 6:30pm
Wed. Apr. 16  ACT Foundation 7pm
       Talmud Study 7pm
Thurs. Apr. 17  Panim el Panim 6:30pm
        Shirei Chesed 7:45pm
Fri. Apr. 18  Community Shabbat Dinner    
Sat. Apr. 19  SHABBAT / Aharei Mot / Shabbat HaGadol
        First Passover Seder
Sun. Apr. 20 Morning Services 10am
       Second Passover Seder
       Community Seder
      
APRIL 21-27
Mon. Apr. 21 Morning Services 10am
Sat. Apr. 26 SHABBAT PESAH
Sun. Apr. 27 Last Day Passover - Morning Services 10am


SATURDAY NIGHT SEDER

This year, Passover begins on Saturday night - an inconvenient turn of the calendar that happens rarely enough that people can forget how to handle their Pesach cleaning and disposal of Hametz. (It will not occur again until 2021.)  Here are some notes to help you have a Hag Kasher v'Sameah, a happy and Kosher holiday.

Fast of the First Born - Taanit Bekhorim

First, an adjustment is made in the customary "fast of the first born" on the day before the Seder. (Incidentally, the legal tradition records an opinion that first-born females fast, too. An unexpectedly egalitarian view.) Since one does not fast on Shabbat, the fast of the first-born is advanced. But advanced by how much? It is thought to be burdensome and a spoiling of the Shabbat spirit to fast on Friday (although if Pesach were to begin on Friday night, one would fast on Friday anyway). Instead, we fast on Thursday, from dawn to sundown. However, it is most common for people to attend synagogue that morning to participate in the conclusion of a major study project and the celebratory meal that follows. So on Thursday April 17, please come to morning services and I will make a Siyyum on tractate Sotah.

Search for Leaven - Bedikat Hametz

In most years, the night before the Seder, just after sundown but before dark, one searches one's property to ensure that no Hametz is in one's possession. (It is forbidden not only to consume Hametz on Passover, but even to own it.) This year, however, we advance this practice by one day, to Thursday night. The custom is to check with a candle and feather to get into the nooks and crannies. (Be sure to make this a symbolic check. Every year or two, an overzealous checker burns down the apartment by igniting the drapes. So stay away from fabric, furniture and carpets.) My family and many others make this into a fun game for the kids, by hiding a certain number of packets of Hametz around the house.

Before searching, say a blessing: Barukh Ata Adonay, Elohenu Melekh HaOlam, Asher Kideshanu BeMitzvotav, v'Tzivanu al Bi'ur Hametz. Blessed is God, Master of the Cosmos, who makes us holy and commands us regarding removal of leaven. After that, one says a formula to nullify, or renounce ownership of leaven. This formula is given in prayerbooks and Haggadot in the vernacular Aramaic, so it is fine, even preferable, to say it in English: Any leaven in my possession of which I am unaware and which I have not yet destroyed, is hereby considered nullified, like the dust of the earth. 

Destroying Leaven - Bi'ur Hametz

In most years, the next morning after the search, before Hametz becomes prohibited to eat and even for any economic or practical benefit, one should destroy the last bits of the Hametz from the night before. Usually this is done by burning (and Ansche Chesed always has a small bonfire for this purpose), but one may also crumble it and scatter it to the wind or throw it in the ocean, or any other method. This year, the day after the search will not be the day before the Seder - it will be Friday, fully 36 hours before the Saturday night Seder. So there is no particular need to destroy the Hametz by a certain hour on Friday. We will still have a Friday morning fire at the shul, so we do not lose practice at the customary burning. But if you miss the morning fire, you should still burn or scatter your Hametz sometime on Friday, before Shabbat begins. Since this Friday act does not coincide with the prohibition on economic benefit from Hametz as it does on most years, there is no need to recite the final nullification formula, as you normally would.

Instead, one should recite that formula on Saturday morning before 11:47, when the prohibition on Hana'ah [benefit] takes effect: Any leaven in my possession, whether I am aware or unaware of it, which I have destroyed or not yet destroyed, is hereby considered nullified, like the dust of the earth.

Kashering Your Home

      In most years, one should complete the Kashering process by the time the prohibition of eating Hametz kicks in. This year, because that time kicks in on Shabbat morning, one has to prepare a bit earlier: All the kitchen transformations and Kashering of appliances must be complete before lighting candles for Shabbat, at 7:20 p.m.

 
    Shabbat Meals

      So what should you eat on Shabbat? Three states of affairs conflict: 1) the kitchen must be ready for Passover, 2) one should eat three Shabbat meals, including saying HaMotzi over bread, and 3) one is forbidden to eat Matza on the day before the Seder. (On this last point, many people avoid Matza for three days or even 30 days before Passover, but the actual law is only to avoid it on the day of the Seder. Still, I recommend avoiding Matza for the whole preceding month, not because of traditionalism, but because it intensifies the experience of eating Matza at the Seder itself.)

      For those who wish to keep these laws scrupulously, there are two basic options. The easiest is to be fully Pesach-dik one day early, rid all your home of Hametz on Friday before Shabbat, exactly as you would on any other year (and say the nullification formula on Friday before Shabbat, not as advised above), and eat only Kosher for Pesach food on Shabbat. Then, say HaMotzi at the meals on Shabbat over what the sources call Matza Ashira ("rich matza") or what we usually call "egg Matza." Egg Matza is a kind of middle ground food: it is sufficiently close to Matza to be considered bread for purposes of saying HaMotzi, but not truly Matza, such that one could use it for the mitzvah of eating Matza at the Seder. [This is tactic recommended by R. Moshe Feinstein. Note: many Ashkenazim have the tradition of not eating egg Matza at all on Passover. Even if that is your practice, it is universally agreed that one can eat it before Passover actually begins.]

But some people will find that extra day of a Hametz free zone to be burdensome. So here is another option: one can simply keep a small, defined and well-guarded amount of Hametz food in your home for Friday night dinner, and make HaMotzi over regular Challah. In that case, one might want to eat on paper plates and be careful with the crumbs. Then after Friday night dinner, dispose of the remains thoroughly and be certain to shake out your tablecloth well, then store it away with the Hametz dishes. This practice can apply to Saturday morning breakfast as well.

What about Shabbat lunch? Since the prohibition of eating Hametz kicks in at 10:40 Saturday morning, obviously one cannot eat Challah at lunch. In some very traditional settings, they make a point of beginning Shabbat morning prayers at 6:30 or 7 a.m., so they can complete davvening early enough for a full meal. Should Ansche Chesed try that this year? On second thought . . .  let's davven at the regular time. But in this case, one could only use egg matza for HaMotzi on Shabbat. For Seuda Shelishit, the third meal in the afternoon, one may either say HaMotzi on egg matza or, in this difficult situation, simply omit the bread, and restrict the meal to fruit, veggies or fish. Since it is desirable to be hungry during the Seder, I recommend eating a very small Seuda Shelishit. 

 
-- Rabbi Jeremy Kalmanofsky


PASSOVER NOTES

PASSOVER LEARNING
Sunday, April 6, 3:00-5:00 p.m.
Join David Arnow, author of the popular work Creating Lively Passover Seders, to explore how to balance ritual and spontaneity in your seder.  No fee. (Children may participate at the same time in a project to create a new ark curtain for family services. $10 per person or $20 per family).

Tuesday, April 8, 7:30-9:00 p.m.
Rabbi Kalmanofsky will lead a learning session:
Who Knows Four . . . Questions, Cups, and Children?
Many motifs in the Passover Seder are based on the number four.  How do these correlate?  What do all these fours add up to?  We'll look especially at the image of the four questioning children to help prepare ourelves for a night of deep questions.

Pre-Passover Shabbat Dinner
Friday, April 18
Relax after your holiday cleaning, and take a break from cooking.  Join us at AC for a pre-Pesah Shabbat dinner.  Adults $35 / Children 4-12 $15.  Reserve by calling 212.865.0600 ext. 202.

Home Hospitality for the First Passover Seder

Saturday, April 19
No one should be alone on Pesah.  Ansche Chesed members who are hosting seders have traditionally opened their homes to members who need a place to attend the seder.  If you would like to attend or host someone for the first night of Pesah, please contact the office by calling 212.865.0600 ext. 205 or by email at sposen@anschechesed.org.   

Second Night Community Seder at Ansche Chesed
Sunday, April 20
Rabbi Kalmanofsky will lead a seder for all ages.  Join friends from the AC community and beyond to ask our questions and tell the story of our people's liberation.  We will be using the Feast of Freedom Haggadah, which is available at West Side Judaica.  A limited number of haggadot will be provided.  Cost: AC members and guests $70; Seniors & Students $55; Non-members $84; Children ages 4-12 $25.  Vegetarian and fish options are available.  To reserve, please call 212.865.0600 ext. 205 or email sposen@anschechesed.org.  The gym will be open for supervised play after the start of the seder meal.  The seder will begin at 7:15 p.m.  Mincha/Ma'ariv services will be held at 6:45 p.m.

Feeding the Hungry
As in past years, we are collecting non-perishable packaged foods for the food pantry run by the West Side Campaign Against Hunger. Food may be brought to the Ansche Chesed office until Friday mroning, April 18.  Monetary contributions are also welcome; checks should be payable to the Ansche Chesed Rabbi's Fund or WSCAH.

Sale of Hametz
If you plan on designating Rabbi Kalmanofsky to sell your hametz, please visit the synagogue during business hours up until noon on Friday, April 18.  You may also do this by email. Write to Rabbi Kalmanofsky at rjk@anschechesed.org.  Be sure to include your address and apartment number.  It is also customary to make a donation to the AC Rabbi's Discretionary Fund to help feed those in need.

Book of Remembrance
The Book of Remembrance lists those close to us who have passed away, but who have not been forgotten.  It is published in the fall and spring each year, and is distributed to congregants on the four days on which we say Yizkor, the memorial service: the last day of Passover, the second day of Shavuot, Yom Kippur, and Shemini Atzeret.  Please return your form to the office with your contribution by Thursday, April 17.

PASSOVER SCHEDULE
Thursday, April 17
Morning minyan 7:20 a.m., followed by siyyum of the first born.
Search for hametz between sunset and darkness.

Friday, April 18
Kabbalat Shabbat Services 6:30 p.m.
Community Dinner 7:30 p.m.

Saturday, April 19
Shabbat Morning Services 10:00 a.m.
Stop eating hametz by 10:40 a.m.
Candle lighting not before 8:10 p.m.
First Seder

Sunday, April 20
Morning Services 10:00 a.m.
Candle lighting ideally after 8:12 p.m., but permissible earlier
Second Seder
Minha/Ma'ariv 6:45 p.m.
AC Community Seder 7:15 p.m.

Saturday, April 26
Shabbat and Pesah Morning Services 10:00 a.m.

Sunday, April 27
Morning Services 10:00 a.m., including Yizkor.


YOM HaATZMA'UT CONCERT
 WITH SHORASHIM AND SHIREI CHESED

Sunday, May 4, 7:00 p.m.

With young, talented musicians from Israel and their band, Shorashim, in "For the Bitter and the Sweet, Celebrating 60 Years of Israel in Song." Shorashim will be joined by community chorus Shirei Chesed andHazzan Natasha Hirschhorn.  With vocalists Magda Fishman, pianist Yuval Cohen, and Ya'aki Levi on percussion.  $10 in advance / $15 at the door / Children under 13 free.

SHABBAT LEARNING

Mysticism, Midrash, and More
Rabbi David Gedzelman
Join Rabbi David Gedzelman on Shabbat mornings to look at the weekly Torah portion through the lens of various Hasidic masters, midrashim, and traditional commentaries.  Open up the language of the Hebrew bible to an exploration of meaning and spirituality on both the level of personal journey and process, and the level of communal values and ideals.
Shabbat mornings, 9:30-10:30am
Through April 26


Parashat HaShavua with Rashi and Rashbam

Rabbi Jeremy Kalmanofsky
Rashi and Rashbam, who lived in France in the 11th and 12th centuries, forever changed the way Jews would study Torah.  They developed new methods for uncovering what they viewed as the Torah's simple meaning, redrawing the boundaries of "traditional Jewish interpretation."  Join us to see the weekly reading through their eyes.
Shabbat mornings, 9:30-10am
Next series begins May 3

Psalms for the Heart
Rabbi Jeremy Kalmanofsky
This reading group will look at the Psalms as devotional texts.  For centuries, Jews have sought solace, strength, and religious inspiration in these poems for times of joy and trouble.  Everyone is invited to discuss familiar and unfamiliar texts, and to see how they might shape your spiritual experience.
Monthly, Shabbat afternoons at 4pm. Next session April 12


FAMILY PROGRAM NEWS

Preparing for Pesah: Two Special Programs
Sunday, April 6, 3:00-5:00 p.m.
FOR ADULTS: Join David Arnow to explore how the Seder can be what the ancient Sages intended: a careful balance of ritual and spontaneity.  We'll talk about why it can be difficult to create an engaging experience and discuss some activities that can be used at your family's Seder.

FOR CHILDREN: Create a New Parochet
The parochet is the curtain that is at the front of the ark protecting the Torah scrolls.  We will be making new curtains for the Big Kids Service and for Minyan Yigdal. With Mindy Fischer and Rabbi Lauren Kuland.
RSVPs required to Sarah.ACHS@gmail.com.  Cost: $10 per person or $20 per family.

AC's Second Annual Chocolate Seders!
Enjoy 4 cups of chocolate milk, bitter "herb" chocolate, and chocolate matzah!  A pizza dinner will also be served.  $10 per child at the door.  All are invited!  RSVP to Sarah Waxman at 212.865.0600 ext. 207 or sarah.achs@gmail.com.
For Grades 6-8: Wednesday, April 9, 6:00-7:00 p.m.
For Grades 3-5: Thursday, April 10, 6:00-7:00 p.m.

ACT Foundation Hears Presentations
ACT, the Ansche Chesed Tzedakah foundation for b'nai mitzvah students, has an exciting month ahead.  Within the next three weeks, the group will hear presentations from seven Africa organizations who are traveling to us from New York, Washington D.C., Connecticut, and Canada.  The students hear presentations and decide to which organizations they would like to donate the ACT money.  Visitors will come from Student Movement for Real Change, Witness, Water Aid America, American Jewish World Service, American Friends of Kenya, American Red Cross, and International Charity for Africa. 

Celebrate Yom HaAtzma'ut With Your Family
Sunday, May 4
For Pre-School Children and Their Families: 10:30 a.m.-12:00 noon

A hands-on celebration of Israel's 60th birthday with song and dance, arts, and crafts, and refreshments.  All are welcome.  $20 per family.

For Children 5 Years and Older 4:00-6:00 p.m.
The festivities begin with the premiere of "The Torch and The Sun," an original Ansche Chesed production starring the children of AC, commemorating Yom HaZikaron and honoring Yom HaAtzm'aut, Israel Independence Day.  Followed by Israeli dancing and dinner.  $25 per family.


MARCH DONATIONS

GENERAL DONATIONS  

Deborah Brodie in honor of the birthdays of Ellen Braitman, David Shapiro, David Roskies, Rabbi Marion Shulevitz, the bat mitzvah of Anna Peterman, and in honor of Michelle Dingoor, Alan Divack and Josh Hanft for their work on the tribute Journal; in memory of Lester Herschlag, brother of Yocheved Muffs
Michael Brochstein in memory of Isaac Meyers, son of William Meyers and Nahma Sandrow
Ann Hiatt in memory of Isaac Meyers, son of William Meyers and Nahma Sandrow
Frances Degen Horowitz in honor of Yocheved and Yochanan Muffs, a wonderful and dedicated couple
Barry Holtz and Bethamie Horowitz in memory of Isaac Meyers, son of William Meyers and Nahma Sandrow
Marjorie Hort in memory of Isaac Meyers, son of William Meyers and Nahma Sandrow
Leah Silberman Jenner
David Lock and Dawn Kellman
in memory of Isaac Meyers, son of William Meyers and Nahma Sandrow
Stephen and Carol Koenigsberg in honor of Roberta Koenigsberg and her dedication to our mother, and with thanks to Rabbi Kalmanofsky and his wonderful care and attention for our family during a time of need
Selma Kronengold in honor of Yocheved and Yochanan Muffs
Salomee Lindenbaum in honor of Yocheved and Yochanan Muffs
Joan Rosenbaum in honor of Yocheved and Yochanan Muffs
Ruth and Ira Salzman in memory of Isaac Meyers, son of William Meyers and Nahma Sandrow, in honor of Sarah Jacobs, and in honor of Michael Schmidt's new position
Saul Scheidlinger and Rosalyn Tauber Scheidlinger
Robert and Naomi Schwartz
in memory of Isaac Meyers, beloved son of William Meyers and Nahma Sandrow
Judy Margolin and Seth Schwartz in honor of the 60th birthday of David Roskies and the 40th birthday of Jenny Lyss
Ira and Lenore Silverstein in memory of Sophie Seidlin, mother of Mindell Seidlin
Amy and Paul Sklar in honor of Gabriel Levine's Bar Mitzvah
Joyce Slochower in honor of Anna Sydney Peterman's Bat Mitzvah
Fanny Steinhauser
Sandy and Burt Visotzky
in honor of Jenny Lyss's birthday
Suzanne and Michael Weinstein in memory of Rae Koenigsberg, mother of Roberta Koenisgsberg
Terry Sue Zisowitz

YAHRZEIT  DONATIONS
Vivian Awner
in memory of her mother, Ruth Awner
Richard Ballinger in memory of his grandmother, Celia Felder
Zelda Damashek in memory of her mother, Sally Guttman
Emanuel Derman in memory of his father, Chaim Derman
Jerome Ehrlich in memory of his father, Isidore Ehrlich
Ellen Flax in memory of her mother, Doris Flax
Lucy Geldzahler in memory of her father, Adolphe Fischer
Sara Fisher Gillman in memory of her father, Harry Fisher
Lisa Greenberg in memory of her father, Jack Greenberg
Sandra Gubin in memory of her father, Benjamin Gubin
Renee Hausman in memory of her son, Erik Hausman
Frances Degen Horowitz and Floyd Horowitz in memory of Floyd's father, Joseph Horowitz, his aunt, Dorothy Horowitz, and Mindell Seidlin's mother, Sophie Seidlin
Jerome Mendlowitz in memory of his mother, Mayme Mendlowitz
Karen Palmer in memory of her father, Richard Druckman
William Shulevitz in memory of his father, Norman Shulevitz
Dr. Ian M. Yudelman in memory of his mother, Lena Yudelman
Amy Zarrow in memory of her mother, Evelyn Zarrow

RABBI'S FUND  
Paul and Mary Feinberg
Roberta and Stephen Koenigsberg
Josef Najar

SANCTUARY MINYAN KIDDUSH FUND  
Paul and Mary Feinberg
David Kaplan

PURIM DONATIONS  
Karen Palmer

SHELTER FUND  
Ariel Aloni-Netzer and Yael Aloni
Vicki Brower
in memory of Isaac Meyers, son of William Meyers and Nahma Sandrow; Yocheved Muffs' brother, Lester Herschlag; and in honor of Yochanan and Yocheved Muffs, David Roskies' birthday, and Anna Peterman's Bat Mitzvah
Benyamin Cirlin
Howard Eisenberg
Sylvia Ettenberg
Judith Merion and Richard Fried
Robert Frost and Navah Perlman Frost
Melanie Schneider and Marla Gayle
Arthur and Ellen Giglio
Nancy L. Greenbaum
Rebecca Joseph
Rick and Lauren Koffler
Vera and Morton Leifman
Janet Leuchter
in memory of Isaac Meyers, son of William Meyers and Nahma Sandrow and Rick Posen, husband of Sharri Posen
Carole Levy
Deborah Krohn and Peter Miller
Sara Shapiro-Plevan and William Plevan
Ellen Rafel
Eric Peterman and Ellen Resnick
Ruth and Ira Salzman
Joseph and Bonnie Schinagle

 





NEWS & NOTES
 

Condolences to the following members and their families:
Nathaniel Persily
on the death of his mother, Nancy Persily, also an AC member.
Nahma Sandrow, William Meyers and Hannah Meyers on the death of their son and brother, Isaac Meyers.

Mazal Tov to:
March's B'nai Mitzvah and their families:

Ethan Levenson
Gabriel Levine
Maxwell Padway
Jack Stevenson
Lily Young

Lisa Brunner and Amir Babayoff on the birth of their daughter, Amelia Noa.
Amy and Robert Tuchman
on the birth of their daughter, Mia.

Todah Rabbah to March Shelter Volunteers:
(Names in bold indicate AC members)
Pat Corrigan, Yonina Creditor, Carol Cutler, Alan Divack, Allie Fleder, Matthew Feigin, Woody Freiman, Joel Friedman, Elliot Fruchter, Ellen Gerber, Uri Goldberg,
JTS Students, Kehilat Hadar, Gary Kallman, Dan Kaplan, Joyce Karagu, Ira Krell,
KOE Minyan, Tatyana Leifman, Reuben Levavi,Alex Levine, Joyce Mann,
Jocelyn Maskow,
Andy Menkis, Daniel Messing, Linda Messing, Elizabeth Silberman & Zoe Goldfarb, Rachel Obenshain, Julien Ryu, Kate Schaefer, Dan Schwarzbaum, Kate Sharp, Aliza Shupac, Josh Steingraber, David Tabatsky, Michael Wise.
And many thanks to Charlie Davidson, Shelter Coordinator, Michael Bloome, Assistant Coordinator, and Josh Abrams, Volunteer Coordinator.



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